A while
back I told someone I really look up to that a boy just broke things off with
me. Tears were beginning to swell in my eyes and they rationally replied, “Good!
He did you a favor.” With anger brimming at the thought of this person’s lack
of consideration for my pain I gave a halfhearted smile and turned to his wife
to finish the rest of the story. She was much more consoling… Which at the
moment was what my heart needed. But in the weeks that followed I realized the
value in what was initially said to me, “Good! He did you a favor.” It was
definitely not what I wanted to hear. In those initial moments of this “break-up”
I thought I would have done anything to be with that person, but now I realize
that no one wants to convince someone to date them—that’s a decision everyone
gets to make for themselves. And if someone decides you weren't what they
wanted, in the end, they never could have been enough for you either. Maybe
they just figured it out first. 
Basics
13 – 18 of “Deb’s 26 Basics of Dating” speak to the hopeless romantics of the
world, reminding us that Men are from
Mars and sometimes He’s just not that
into you, and the truth is that’s OK! It usually doesn't seem like it in
the moment of heartache, but it is. TIME heals the wounds. So enjoy these next
6 basics that turn a hopeless romantic into a hopeful romantic
in the search for that someone who will love your best qualities and quirks as
much as you love theirs!
Basics 13 - 18
13.
Remember women fall in love and get married…
14. Men decide to get married and then look for a wife. If a guy says he is not interested in anything serious, believe him—take his words seriously.
15. Is he pursuing you? You do not need to strategically place yourself anywhere. God has transported men and women across the world in order to put them together.
16. If a man is passive about gaining your affections, take it as a sign that he is not interested. You should be recognized as the “pearl of great price” in his life.
17. A man who prepares for your future has made his intentions clear. He has the means to take care of a wife.
14. Men decide to get married and then look for a wife. If a guy says he is not interested in anything serious, believe him—take his words seriously.
15. Is he pursuing you? You do not need to strategically place yourself anywhere. God has transported men and women across the world in order to put them together.
16. If a man is passive about gaining your affections, take it as a sign that he is not interested. You should be recognized as the “pearl of great price” in his life.
17. A man who prepares for your future has made his intentions clear. He has the means to take care of a wife.
18.
Does he embrace responsibility?
Until
the next 6…
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